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Soul Searching in the Midst of Terrorism

      The belief we are above hellish circumstances, until hate detonates a hairs-width from our sanctity is insulting and inane. Suddenly we are outraged and hold tight to the perception we have a right to be. Paris, I love you in a dream, having never walked your streets. But why are you the tipping…

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Do Men Ever Need to Feel Missed

      In honor of those who fight depression every day, one woman attempts to put herself in the shoes of the advised-to-be-emotionless male, wondering if the feeling of needing to be missed affects every gender. As a woman allowed to express her every waking emotion,  this certain liberation might be taken for granted. With no prior knowledge,…

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Why You Need a Partner Not a Peacekeeper

        Nothing is more attractive to a person aching to be vulnerable than a partner asking for trust. Here’s why your peacekeeper needs you to get naked. This past week, I got caught in the crosshairs of knee-jerk reactions dating back to childhood. We have all been there, when we are hit…

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There’s Only One Secret to Great Sex

      Sex gives us a chance to absorb new information, as we devote ourselves to our partner’s innermost needs. — Forget everything you ever learned about sex. Whether perched stiffly in the classroom as your teacher  prattled on about the finer points of copulation, listening incredulously to the stories your friends told in…

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Seven Events That Can Make or Break Your Relationship

      How you and your partner handle seven events may be a predictor of the longevity of your love. — Regardless of how close you may feel with your love, until you and your partner have gone through these seven major events, you are circling the periphery of really learning each other. You may…

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